Melinda is one of nine children born to her mother, Annie, who struggled with several undiagnosed mental illnesses while living in the slums of Regent Park, Toronto, Canada. Melinda was neglected and exposed to violence, abuse, crime, and substance abuse. At three years old, Melinda’s mother surrendered her into the foster care system for a year, and then again, when she was nine.
At fifteen, Melinda escaped her kinship home and embarked on a naïve and lonesome independence that continued the familiar cycle of abuse and trauma she was accustomed to. Melinda reunited with siblings and became consumed by the depths of their generational trauma. At her lowest, Melinda entered a Christ-Centered recovery program that changed the course of her life. With newfound hope and stability in Jesus, she met Mike, who showed her how to love, and be loved, unconditionally.
Melinda went to college to study mental illness, developmental disabilities, and dual diagnoses, graduating with honours. Her studies led her to pursue a redemptive relationship with her mother, who she and her siblings tirelessly, boldly, and emphatically advocated for to receive treatment. Mike and Melinda welcomed her into their home in 2023, and became her caregiver.
Melinda and Mike have been married for 14 years and enjoy life in the country outside of London, ON. Together they are biological parents to Molly and Lilly, adoptive parents to their son, Oakley, and have welcomed several children into their home through foster care.
Melinda is an advocate, traveling speaker, and author of her memoir, "Simply Neglect," which will be released during the summer of 2024.